Deep
friendships between friends of the opposite gender one possible and are
evidenced that both of you have feelings
that so
beyond the platonic nature of your relationship, what matters is that you maintain respect for incredible when they work well- a non-judgment friend of the
opposite sex can offer you much
in the way of advice, support, conversation, and
differing perspective
Steps
1.
Be open to the possibilities of tension unless you as your platonic friend are gay, there
is always the possibility of sparks with
someone of the opposite sex who thinks and feels like you do. It natures
way of getting us together and it rends to run in overdone for some more than others,
2.
Crate clear ground rules avoid getting into
the friends first difficulty . if you
both agreed that having a relationship
was off in cards in such reasons as married status, work, or study pressures, distance, religion etc, the potential
for a romantic affiliation hang there
unspoken. It is much better to make it clear that your have a friendship that matters, in
which both of you care for one
another and spending time
together but that friendship is all it
remains.
3.
Trust
yourselves. All the possibilities aside
have trust in your decision nature and societal
pressure are not determinates of your, fiends, or l you choices you are responsible for your own
choice. Behave in it for what it is and trust
both of you to fulfill the platonic compact
4.
Consider
all the benefits of a platonic relationship. It helps to remember what is gained by remaining platonic rather
than ever being tempted to throw that
away in a moment of romantic weakness.
The benefits of platonic friendship include:
i.
They ensure
because you trust one another
and show a lot together at a spiritual,
emotional and sexual relations, with all
the accompanying doubts, jealousies, complications, etc
ii.
Neither
of you need to perform in front of one
another you are who you are
iii.
You
can learn about the opposite sex
from one another in a sale and
uncompromising way
iv.
Both of you benefit from each others perspective on challenges facing you
in relations with others
v.
There
is always some one you can go to
trgenuine, fearless and forthright advice platonic relationship tend to
have aguallty that transcends the often unspoken competitive and conforming needs of same
gender friendships.
5.
Reassure other who might be impacted by your platonic relationship where there are partners, spouses, lovers,
etc involved, it can be helpful to clear the
air with them early on about the nature
of your platonic friendship. Do like wise for your platonic friends,
other half wise for your platonic stay out of potentially compromising and problem solving
when the two of you work together on sounding while you should never act on it, it is sometimes worth acknowledging to yourself that this
does from part of what makes the platonic friendship work so well. Situations, such as being at their apartment late at night, without
your spouses knowledge or agreement
acknowledge that sometimes the partners concerns about your platonic relationship can be the handset part of maintaining a platonic
friendship you spouse needs to know that.
a.
You
aren’t talking in complaining about them
b.
You
will be open with your spouse about
what you say and do with your platonic
friend
c.
There
will be no secretive actions, and
d.
You
will not let the platonic friends get closer to your than your spouse. If you have a secretive intensely close
relationship with your platonic friend, then you actually are having a emotional affair.
6.
Be realistic. It just may will be that some of the deliberately suppressed
tension in your relationship is what provides both of you with the spark to make it work so well. this never fulfilled but potential reality can be the source of
incredible creativity discovery
How
man benefit from platonic benefits
relationship
Gains
of platonic relationship in mens health.
I
have mentioned on occasion that I am
not really a dating kind of any. I am,
however, one who tend towards marriage
at the first sign of a budding relationship I don’t
understand it, I don’ try to
interpret it simply go with the flow and
do as my heart directs me.
I
don’t know low to alter my innermost feelings
nor do I understand what to do when
this arge to wed strikes me. So I get married would that
I could, strike up a good, sound, health platonic relationship
with one of the opposite sec. the
benefits of such relationship,
I am certain would be bountified,
if it were possible for me or for most any other man for that matter, to
enter tain such a relationship, with a woman, the benefits may include thing such as
10.
couples only: although last on m
proverbial list of then, this ma not
always be last in the real world.
Admission to couples only activities
may, at times, come in handy . I can only speak from having a platonic relationship with a
woman since I am a man lady’s day events, ladies only.
1. insight:
without ever having to say a
word, I know I could eventually sain an insight into the complicated working of woman,
if I were only afforded the opportunity to observe and study her
daily habits ladies free and so on
these could all be accessed once
a woman with whom I share a good, sound, platonictional relationship not
felling what benefits could is
established, emerge. The need and
the desire to know more tends to diminish until such time though the 8
mystery of a woman haunts a ma night and day. I
would greatly relish the prospect of a woman and
developing my own great schematic.
A. home cooking: in a man, what can I say . I know simply
being a woman doesn't mean you are also a cook let alone a good one, but most woman are probably more
the cook than I am maybe my platonic relationship would be strong enough to elicit a home made
meal every now and then. This is a wonderful benefits
Opinion; not that I need some else opinion on
anything I may do that I need some else opinion on anything I ma do but to have
a woman's opinion on may different decisions could easily save me from doing the wrong thing we men tend
to have a reputation of jumping out and buying something before we even
think about it. A woman's opinion may help me think it over a little
better the opinion may even save me some
money, time or even face.
7.
Camaraderie: a form of friendship such as camaraderie, may be
possible with the right woman. This is
a type of friendship where both
participants share the likes and dislikes. the
two people dust seem to click, they finish each others
sentences, are for the same restaurant
at the same time and, all in all, seem
to know oneself
8.
Advice
: it may seem unfair to ask a platonic friend of the opposite sex for advice
on how to win the affections of
different person of the opposite sex, but they, this is a platonic
relationship to be able to get advice on what to do how to do
and when would be priceless who would know better than one game sex I am pursuing?
Expenses : in true
platonic relationship a man