Fear, guilt, shame, low self-esteem, etc.What to do with our feelings. Before I begin, I want to make it clear that I am only speakingof the stronghold/behavioral aspect of fear, guilt, etc. There ARE spirits of guilt, fear, worthlessness, etc. that can also be a factor and must be addressed (and driven out). However, if all we do is address the spirits but leave the strongholds in place, they are liable to return. This teaching deals strictly with the behavioral piece of the puzzle.Feelings do not necessarily speak truth. If you feel guilty, it does not mean that you are guilty. Many times, feelings merely tell us what is going onin our thought life (or what weare
really believing). If we think we are guilty, there will be feelings of guilt as the fruit of those thoughts or beliefs. It's sort of like feeling a hot stove;feelings are meant to help alert us of something thatis wrong. Feelings should not be ignored, but properly interpreted.
For example, if you feel guilty, don't start thinking "Oh, it must be true. I need to go confess my sins again and go try to dot every iand cross every t." That is letting feelings tell us what to do, and feelings can be (and often are) wrong.When we begin to feel guilty, we need to instead get to the root of the problem and address it with God's Word. What does God's Word say about our guilt? It tells us that if we confess our sin and forsake it, we are forgiven andcleansed of whatever kind of unrighteousness that we've committed. When we choose to believe that over how we feel, then our feelings will begin to change because they are merely the fruit of our thoughts and beliefs.In this case, our feelings were wrong because our belief was wrong.Remember,feelings are just the fruit of our thoughts and beliefs.
If we feel wrong, then it wouldn't hurt to stop and ask ourselves what we believe.Do we believe that when a man confesses his sin and believes upon Christ, that he is forgiven? Or do we, in the back of our minds, wonder if we've sinned too badly, or if we need to do something before we can be forgiven?Our feelings can be a great revealer of what we are reallybelieving under the surface.It is important to be balanced when dealing with our feelings. I don't think it's healthy to completely ignore our feelings, but I can assure you that it is not healthy to go by our feelings either. The key is to learn how to discern what our feelings are really telling us, and then get to the root of the problem. Feelings of guilt, for example, do not necessarily mean that we are indeed guilty, but rather that our beliefs are not rooted and grounded on God's Word like they ought to be.A dirty conscience should not be ignored, but rather investigated. False guilt is an indication of a faulty belief. Is a clean conscience important according to God's Word? Yes!How much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without spot to God,purge your conscience from dead worksto serve the living God?Hebrews 9:14
So with that said, I believe it is important to have a clean conscience. But we can only have that clean conscience when we stand firm on God's Word and believe what it reallysays about the forgiveness of our sins. When we truly believe that the Blood of Christhas paid the full price for our failures, only then can we have a truly clean conscience. As long as we think that we've messed up too badly, or need to do something before we can be forgiven, we will live with a dirty conscience. That isbecause we don't truly believewe are forgiven, and when wedon't believe that we're forgiven, how on earth can weexpect to feel like it? We can't!Fear is another feeling which is completely unnecessary in the life of a believer. How do we know this? God's Word tellsus that perfect love casts out all fear.
For those who think that fear is a natural and unavoidable feeling, God's Word tells us that "He who fears has not been made perfect in love."There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment.He that feareth is not made perfect in love.1 John 4:18Got fears? Don't believe them, but rather seek to be established and made perfect in God's great love for you. That will dispel those fears. What most people do is go by their feelings and believe them, rather than seeing them as a warning that something isn't right in their beliefs or thought lives. That is where many well intending Christiansgo in the ditch. Another ditch is to completely ignore those feelings (or warning signs), and do nothing about them.
The question I ask you is, whatare you doing about those feelings? Are you going by what you feel as if it were truth? Or are you asking yourself, "What am I thinking or believing that may not be aligned with God's Word?"Fear, like false guilt, is a result of believing something other than God's Word. False guilt is when we choose to believe an imagination that has risen itself against the knowledge ofGod (see 2 Corinthians 10:4-5),even though God's Word assures us that when we confess our sins, He is faithful to forgive us of any sort of unrighteousness that we've committed.Now of course, not all feelings should be interpreted as a fault in our thoughts or beliefs.
There are times when then Holy Spirit will give a person an uneasy feeling about a situation (discernment), or maybe a burden to pray over somebody that we normally wouldn't pray over. These types of feelings are used by God as a means to communicate with our spirits, and should not be ignored.However, what I am talking about in this teaching is feelings of low self-esteem, fear, false guilt, shame, etc. Feelings along these lines are spelled out clearly in God's Word as being completely unnecessary for the children of God. What these types of feelings (false guilt, fear, etc.) have in common is that they are rooted in a belief or imagination that has risen itself against the knowledge ofGod (what is spoken clearly in His Word).For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds; Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;2 Corinthians 10:4-5