She knows I’m the husband, she respects me and reverences me
and loves me and helps me fulfill my calling. I celebrate her because d most expensive thing in life is
marry a pretty girl that wants to be celebrated; they don’t take nonsense.
If you don’t want trouble, please celebrate her.
When I came back from schooling in America, my wife said to
me, hide those certificates, nobody wants to know how educated you are. They
want to know how many people were healed and delivered and set free from
bondage by the anointing of God deposited in you.
Secondly, you lose to win in marriage. Even when your wife
has wounded or hurt you please don’t emphasis it, de-emphasis it. Make sure u
put money into her hand even though she has money and do it weekly.
Thirdly, when she asks you for money, give her more than she
asked for.
Fourthly, when she dresses up for service, turn, ponder and
celebrate her; don’t just look at her as though you are a mumu, say to her, you
are gorgeously dressed!
Fifth, accept her relations and her parents particularly,
take care of them as you take care of your own parents . f she has brother or
sister, invest in them, they will always speak for you because they have eaten
your food. No man eats your food without giving you praise. So make sure u
invest in those areas.
Sixth, love her children. Its very confusing that men love
women and women celebrate children, they adore children. To a woman, it’s a
beginning of unending joy and laughter, so if you want your wife to love you,
love her children and take care of them, send them to good schools and
celebrate them.
My wife says to me on a crusade platform, you are a big man
of God but in this house you are not a big man of God, you are a husband and a
father. So dont walk in here as though you are under anointing. The demons stop
in the crusade ground, here we are for celebration. So anytime u walk in
through that door, forget whatever exploits you did at d crusade ground, here
you are just an ordinary husband, don’t act as a super preacher because the
crowd has gone, only we are left.
Romance is simply giving a woman quality time. It could be 5minutes but quality time. Make
sure have what she needs before you meet her. Inject the element of surprise
for her, make sure you celebrate her, keep her informed about where you are,
that is what every woman needs. In this I’m an expert. I call her several times
in one day and we still exchange love letters. I make sure I have an element of
surprise for her, it could groundnut rapped in tissue paper. Something that
will surprise her. Women don’t really want money, they want appreciation,
recognition,, they want to be protected.
If a man doesn’t have money, he must have a bag of humor. A
good man must be able to make his wife laugh 5 times a day. If a woman laughs 5
times every day, her blood pressure will be low and she will look younger even
as a young person in love with a girl, you dream beautiful dreams but after the
wedding, you will know that love is blind, but marriage is an eye opener. There
are things to put in place.
Anybody who dreamt of marriage and got married and found out
that the wife will not obey his command and got disappointed because she did
not obey his command, the man is sick. The man is an unperformed husband because
marriage is union of two opposites. A man that says stand up and a woman that
says why must we stand up. A man that likes Garri and a woman that likes rice.
A man who likes clothe and a woman who has no interest in clothes. It is this
mixture of two opposites that will give the marriage life and progress. May
heaven grant you wisdom in your marriage and relationship.